Because I Said So
Sarah Ockwell-Smith
2022
In this thoughtful and accessible book, Sarah Ockwell-Smith dismantles traditional authoritarian parenting methods, arguing for a shift toward connection-based, emotionally intelligent approaches. She explores the origins of obedience-focused parenting, its long-term effects, and offers practical tools for raising confident, cooperative children without coercion.
Why It’s Included:
This title deeply aligns with gentle parenting values, especially the importance of respect, understanding, and communication. It’s a powerful antidote to punitive parenting advice, offering science-backed guidance with compassion and realism.
Who It’s For:
Perfect for parents transitioning away from mainstream discipline methods, or those curious about the roots and risks of authoritarian parenting. Also valuable for educators and professionals working with families.
“Growing up in an era when children were yelled at, smacked, punished and shamed, I would just like to say: I am not okay. As a mother and grandmother who chose a different, more gentle and respectful pathway, this book is what I wish I had to hand in the 80s and 90s, as I trod that path with few resources. This is the book I want others to have.”
Further Reading:
The Gentle Discipline Book – Sarah Ockwell-Smith
Hold On to Your Kids – Gordon Neufeld & Gabor Maté
